Is it possible that MD can throw you in the enormous inaction? - Wild Minds network2024-03-28T18:22:18Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/is-it-possible-that-md-can-throw-you-in-the-enormous-inaction?commentId=4661400%3AComment%3A265210&xg_source=activity&feed=yes&xn_auth=noAlthough I do agree with Sour…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2017-09-11:4661400:Comment:2653382017-09-11T19:24:26.297ZAlanahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Alana165
<p>Although I do agree with Source to an extent,</p>
<p>MDD is probably a part of what is holding you back, because you would rather be daydreaming your mind won't be able to stay focused on what you're doing.</p>
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<p>I love my daydreams too :) It's just lately I've begun to realise how much they are holding me back and hold others back from actually doing things we should be doing or want to do real life, and that's frightening to me.</p>
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<p>You can't just give up on…</p>
<p>Although I do agree with Source to an extent,</p>
<p>MDD is probably a part of what is holding you back, because you would rather be daydreaming your mind won't be able to stay focused on what you're doing.</p>
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<p>I love my daydreams too :) It's just lately I've begun to realise how much they are holding me back and hold others back from actually doing things we should be doing or want to do real life, and that's frightening to me.</p>
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<p>You can't just give up on daydreaming, that probably wouldn't be a good idea anyways, I mean, <strong>everyone</strong> daydreams. It is fine to do it only becomes a problem when it prevents you from actually accomplishing anything outside of your daydreams xx</p> Have you ever considered that…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2017-09-10:4661400:Comment:2652102017-09-10T09:08:56.987ZCamoranhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Source
<p>Have you ever considered that instead of daydreaming being why you don't have happiness and fulfillment, it might be the other way around? Let's pretend for a moment that this was the case. If your life is a tormented, unfulfilled disaster, that leaves a gaping void in your mind where the happiness should be, and the human brain doesn't take kindly to nothingness. Nothingness has the power to drive you insane in moments, you can't comprehend "nothing", your brain can't process it, so what…</p>
<p>Have you ever considered that instead of daydreaming being why you don't have happiness and fulfillment, it might be the other way around? Let's pretend for a moment that this was the case. If your life is a tormented, unfulfilled disaster, that leaves a gaping void in your mind where the happiness should be, and the human brain doesn't take kindly to nothingness. Nothingness has the power to drive you insane in moments, you can't comprehend "nothing", your brain can't process it, so what does it do? It simulates what should be there to compensate for it, to try and plug the hole.</p>
<p>You can't experience fulfillment, so you dream of it - or rather, you dream of what you think it would be like. It's still bad, incredibly dangerous long-term, but it's still better than instantly losing your mind.</p>
<p>See the problem here? MDD isn't what holds you back from accomplishing things, it's a natural reaction to prevent you from going completely mad, a reaction to something buried deep inside your head. If you want to know what is really wrong, you'll have to start digging. It might take a while and it will feel like a stroll through the burning pits of hell, but it's the only way to know the real reason behind it all.</p>
<p>All that being said, I just told you what worked for me. I don't know what goes on inside your mind, in fact I <em>can't</em> know. Actually <em>no one</em> can know unless you find out first and tell them.</p>